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Human First, Leader Second: How Self-Compassion Outperforms Self-Criticism

Human First, Leader Second: How Self-Compassion Outperforms Self-Criticism

By Massimo Backus

"As the saying goes, hurt people hurt people. Leaders who place harsh pressure and expectations on themselves are bound to let others down and disconnect from their teams. Self-compassion is the way out. Through adopting a practice of self-compassion, we can begin to develop greater self-awareness, self-management, and personal accountability so that leaders can foster the cultures of compassion, flourishing, and productivity they desire.

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Publisher: Berrett-Koehler Publishers
Publish Date: 09/10/2024
Pages: 264
ISBN-13: 9781523007059
ISBN-10: 1523007052
Language: English

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September 04, 2024

Rather than embracing a leadership style rooted solely in perfection and nonstop drive, Massimo Backus urges readers to practice self-compassion to become more humane and effective leaders. READ FULL DESCRIPTION

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A self-compassion blueprint for leaders who are closed-off, constantly on the verge of burnout, and/or trapped in the myth of perfectionism. Through this 6-step framework, leaders will learn that self-compassion is for the strong, to separate their title from their person, and how to care for themselves in order to care for others. So many leadership and compassion books seek to remind leaders to "behave human" and treat those around them with care. But the truth is that leaders are human. They're not playing at being human or calling forth their humanity on demand. Their struggle in marrying leadership and compassion stems from leaders ignoring self-care--the lack of compassion toward their subordinates is just a symptom. Human First, Leader Second introduces leaders to the practice of self-compassion through a 6-step framework designed to ease even the most hard-headed and hard-assed leaders into thoughtful, and productive, introspection.
  • Backward Biography, Biology, Backstory
  • Forward Purpose, Values, Priorities
  • Inward Intentions, Feelings, Thoughts
  • Outward Intent, Actions, Behaviors
  • Leeward Self-care and Personal Accountability
  • Wayward Regret and Self-forgiveness

Offering strategies for a personalized exploration of self-compassion--and what works best for the individual--this book will help leaders grow awareness to the importance of self-care while debunking the myth that compassion equals weakness. Regardless of our title or influence, we are all humans first, who need compassion.

About the Author

Massimo Backus is the author of Human First, Leader Second. As an executive coach, facilitator, and speaker, Massimo champions the revolutionary mindset that self-compassion is a leadership epiphany.

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